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We've never been on a clothing-optional vacation.
What's it like?
A clothing
optional vacation is just like your other
vacations - with one major exception - you don't
have to wear clothes. A growing number of people
are enjoying these types of vacations and a
growing number of first class resorts are offering
the option to go topless or nude.
Clothing-Optional
or Nude recreation has been the norm in Europe for
many years, and while a bit slow to "catch on" in
the US proper, it is becoming very popular,
especially in Caribbean destinations catering to
American tourists.
It's not at all unusual for the first timer to be
a little nervous getting started, but once they
get out of their clothes, any nervousness quickly
disappears.
There are two pretty good methods of going about
getting "nekkid" for the first time.
1. A lot of first timers will choose destinations
that are clothing optional for their first trip.
Optional means exactly what it implies - you can
choose to go with or without your bathing suit.
Many of the finer resorts like the Grand Lido's in
Jamaica all have clothing optional beaches. This
way you can work out of your suit a bit more
slowly until you are comfortable.
2. Just jump right in and "Go for it". If you have
already made the decision to go to a clothing
optional or nude beach you have already passed the
biggest hurdle. When you get there, head out to
the nude beach or pool, and quickly strip all the
way out of your clothing, just like you have been
doing it all of you life. Remember... All those
other people are "nekked" too... so it's not a big
thing for them to see you in your birthday suit.
What are the people like?
Just like you
and me! In our travels to clothing optional or
nude destinations we have met all types of folks
including businessmen, entrepreneurs, secretaries,
doctors, professionals, office & factory workers
alike. The great thing about going to a clothing
optional destination is that everybody is the
same. Any pretensions of class or position are
usually quickly lost and everybody seems to fit
together and socialize together.
My body is far from perfect. Won't I be
embarrassed?
If you're
going to a nude beach expecting to see a nude
version of "Baywatch" you're likely to be
disappointed or relieved as the case may be. One
quick look around a nude beach and you will soon
realize that as we mentioned before, most everyone
is just like you and me. You see bodies of all
types, shapes and sizes - tall, short, calorically
challenged (thin), calorically endowed (um...
opposite of thin), black, white, brown and
everything in between. Not wearing clothes is
nothing to be embarrassed about.
Wayne, our webmaster, relates his observations
about some of his visits to resorts that have both
"textile" and "nude" beaches. He finds that the
people on the "clothed" sections of the beaches
always seem to be MUCH more body conscious than on
the nude beach. Always tugging and adjusting suits
so they look just right, while the folks on the
nude beach are relaxed and comfortable. We have
noticed exactly the same thing.
What's the difference between Clothing Optional
(C/O) and Nudist facilities.
A resort or
beach that is Clothing Optional means that you can
be dressed or nude in the designated areas - your
choice. Many first timers prefer Clothing Optional
locations because it gives them a chance to "ease"
out of their clothes. A Nude or Nudist facility or
beach usually means that you are expected to be
out of your clothes completely in the designated
areas.
What do I do about "Woody" or "That Time" of
the Month?
For the guys:
Don't think that just because you have stepped out
on a nude beach your are going to get an automatic
stiffy. Sure its possible, but actually its pretty
unlikely. But if it does happen just roll over on
your stomach for a while, or cover up with a towel
until the "situation" subsides. We have noticed
over the last few years though that the medical
miracle known as the "little blue pill" has had a
noticeable effect at clothing optional and nude
resorts, especially around the pool or spa at
night. We're not telling you what to do, but just
remember that the effects from those things can be
pretty long lasting.
For the gals:
What bad timing, Huh? But don't worry about it,
just go with the flow... so to speak. Usually
women on their heavy days will simply don a
bathing suit bottom and go on having a great time.
On lighter days, most women just do away with the
bottoms and just tuck the string. No big deal...
either way.
What's this I hear about "Nude Etiquette"?
Any clothing
optional or nude facility may have their own
rules, but generally the following guidelines will
be appropriate.
- Always keep a
towel handy and put it over any furniture you
sit on. (Good hygiene)
- Don't stare or
"gawk" at other people who are nude.
- Refrain from
any crude or lewd remarks about another persons
body or appearance.
- No
photography. Save your picture taking for when
nobody else is around and/or ask permission if
anyone else is going to be included in your
photographs or videos.
- Observe the
"rules of the house". If a facility designates
that clothing must be worn in certain areas, or
at certain times - please comply.
What about sex?
Personally...
we are very much in favor of sex!!! Oh... you mean
public displays of sexual activity that you might
have heard about at some resorts?
One thing to clarify about the subject for
newcomers as well as a reminder to "seasoned
veterans" is that public resorts we travel to
don't officially condone public sex. Take it to
the privacy of your room or management can escort
you off the property. Sexual harassment is not
permitted, is against the law in most places, and
clothing optional or Nudist resorts certainly
don't allow it. and... No means No.
Now with all of that said... let's get real here.
Most all the resorts we feature are absolutely
stunning in their beauty and are truly a romantic
dream come true. In addition many of the resorts
are for couples only. Sooooo... lets mix a
romantic atmosphere, a few potent umbrella drinks,
a butt naked couple on a moonlit beach, and it
isn't uncommon for inhibitions to "fly out the
window", so to speak.
At most resorts, people are careful to share their
"private moments" discreetly out and away from
others, but at other resorts some people can be
quite the exhibitionists some times. Managements
enforcement of the "no public sex" policy is often
inconsistent and a lot depends on the mixture of
guests at a particular resort at any given time.
The bottom line is that some resorts are pretty
laid back and sedate most of the time, but others
can have a pretty highly sexually charged
atmosphere most of the time. Again we can't stress
enough how important it is, especially for first
timers, to discuss with us what you want out of
your vacation. We want to help you make the right
choice for you, but we can do that only if we know
what you are looking for.
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