We prefer that
married people attend with their spouse, at least
for the first few times. After that, if your
partner occasionally can't attend, we know that
it's because she or he can't be with you, rather
than they don't know where you are.
Single men, you
can avoid being wait-listed by bringing single
women as your guests. That helps us to maintain
the balance between men and women. That's not as
difficult as some people think. Your partner need
not be someone with whom you have a romantic or an
intimate relationship. She could be a neighbor, a
co-worker, or a family member.
We know single
men who have brought female neighbors, friends,
and women from work. One guy brought two women he
met in a Dale Carnegie course. Another brought
his sister, and some have brought women from
Be aware of the
influence of your own subconscious attitude. If
you expect her to think it's "dirty" or for some
other reason turn you down, count on it, she
Try it! You
could start by casually mentioning the joys of
clothes-free recreation to your female friends.
In answer to "How was your weekend?", you could
respond, "I visited a nudist club, and it was one
of the most relaxing experiences of my life!"
Avoid being excessively enthusiastic; just answer
her questions sincerely and completely. Let her
bring up the subject again; if she feels like
you're pressuring her, she'll probably back off.
After she's asked
questions a couple of times, direct her to this
web site (or give her a copy of our flyer, About
Bare Buns) and give her a copy of THE BOTTOM LINE,
which most people find very reassuring. After
she's read our information, mention that you could
arrange for her to visit a club.
aggressive! Suggest that she could go when you
won't be there (keep in mind that she might be
afraid that you're just hoping to see her
undressed), or that you'd be willing to accompany
her if she'll be more comfortable attending with
somebody she knows.
Or suggest that
she bring one or two of her female friends. It's
often easier to bring two women, than one.
Something men will never understand, like going to
the rest room together.
Of course, every
individual might respond differently, but these
approaches have helped many people overcome that
initial hesitancy to try nudism.
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