I
want to visit a nude beach with my wife but I am
afraid I will get an erection and what should I do
if it does?
Many
men have this fear... but I really don't think you
should worry about it... as it probably is not
going to happen..! Generally nudists always carry
a towel with them... it is a matter of
etiquette... so if you do get an erection and you
are in a place where you feel uncomfortable just
cover yourself with the towel. Rest assured...
nude beaches are not generally a sexual place...
and usually after only a few minutes you will
forget that everyone around you is even nude. It
is highly unlikely you will end up getting an
erection because you will be enjoying the sun and
the beach... and it just normally doesn't happen.
But like I said before... if you find yourself
getting sexually excited and it does happen... so
what... erections are quite normal... but if it
happens in an inappropriate place simply cover it
up..!
Health experts the world over agree that
breastfeeding is
by far the superior way to nourish infants.
For the vast majority of human history, in all
cultures, this was so obvious as to be
unquestioned.
But Western
society came along and declared the female breast
sexual. As a result, breastfeeding declined to the
point that an advocacy group, La Leche League, was
formed in the 1950s to counteract this trend. A
group to advocate the most natural, the most
healthy, and the most convenient way to feed our
babies!
Why did
breastfeeding decline? Sexualizing the female
breast meant that exposing it was obscene. The
convenient nature of breastfeeding disappeared.
Now mothers had to resort to all kinds of idiotic
behavior to feed their infants. They had to hide
their breast--and their baby--under a towel or
blanket. They had to be exiled to another room,
away from "normal" people. They've even had to sit
in a public toilet stall as a last resort, rather
than exposing that nasty, sexual breast of theirs.
This is utter
madness!
Breastfeeding in
America is so inconvenient, because of this
nonsensical belief that an exposed nursing breast
is obscene, that many women simply choose not to
breastfeed, in spite of the fact that
breastfeeding is the healthiest choice for their
children.
Because the
breast is sexualized, women want their breasts to
look as attractive as possible. Therefore many
women choose not to breastfeed because they're
afraid it will cause their breasts to look less
attractive. So the health of our children is
compromised for purposes of vanity!
Because
mothers' breasts
are eternally hidden from boys and men, they
fixate on the female breast as an object of sexual
arousal. This body part whose sole purpose is to
nourish our children in a natural, healthy way,
becomes a sexual object--quite artificially.
Rather than becoming familiar with this body part
and its glorious, innocent purpose in the life
cycle of human beings, we have degraded it into an
object of lust. How sick is that?
This madness has
got to stop! The female breast, especially in its
function as nurturer to the human species, must be
restored to its original nobility. Women must be
able to feel comfortable nursing their children.
They must be made to feel accepting of their
breasts, no matter what condition they are in.
They must be able to feel that the purpose of
their breasts is to nurture children, not to be
objects of lust for men.
How do we do
this? By allowing women to nurse their babies
wherever, whenever, the need arises, without
forcing them to jump through senseless hoops to
avoid being seen. The human race has survived
millennia of exposed breasts as mothers nursed
their children. The morality of "enlightened"
Western civilization will not crumble at the sight
of a nursing breast.
The funny part
is, it's perfectly legal to do so! The La Leche
League's website states:
Mothers have a
right to breastfeed where they go with their baby,
even if that is out in public. It does not matter
whether the mother goes to a public or a private
place, or even whether they are in a state with
legislation. No one has the right to tell a mother
how to feed her baby, especially a way that
increases the risk of illness to both mother and
baby! Legislation has been enacted in nearly
one-half of the states in the U.S. because they
want to clarify this right... It is hoped that
legislation will help to change society's
attitudes that breastfeeding is something indecent
and should not be done in public....
Babies need to
be breastfed on demand, and mothers should not
feel pressured to use bottles.... No breastfeeding
mother should be told that she should have to use
bottles, anymore than a bottle feeding mother
should be told that she should be breastfeeding.
Breastfeeding is an act of nurture, not something
to be hidden. Mothers should be allowed to choose
for themselves how they want to feed their baby,
and our society should not discourage their
choice, especially when it is one that benefits
all of us.
It is
important to remember that women have a right to
breastfeed in public whether there is a law or
not. The purpose of legislation is NOT to legalize
it, but to clarify the fact that women have the
right to breastfeed in public, or that it is not a
criminal offense, such as indecent exposure. Thus,
if you are in a state that does not have
legislation, you still have the right to feed your
baby where you go.
If it's not
illegal to breastfeed in public, then why doesn't
it happen? Why, at those rare times when a brave
mother does do it, do people become shocked and
offended and try to stop it?
Because the
social mores of modern Western civilization
declare it a taboo. It's an "inappropriate" thing
to do. Exposing the breast is at least indecent,
if not obscene.
The truth is,
that belief is obscene, not breastfeeding in
public.
Family
Skinnydippers as an organization is fed up with
the irrational social obstacles to breastfeeding
that exist. Those obstacles are unhealthy for the
child, for the mother, and for society in general.
Family Skinnydippers is committed to changing the
attitude in society that the female breast is
sexual and ought to be hidden.
The female breast
is a nurturing organ. To call it sexual is the act
of a twisted mind. We need to allow mothers to
nourish their children in the way nature intended;
the way that is most healthy for the mother and
child, both physically and emotionally; the way
that is most convenient for the mother (since when
should feeding one's children be a difficult
act?); and in the way that will liberate the
breast from the warped attitude in our society
that it is an object of lust for men.
The way to
accomplish this is simple: breast feed. Do it
whenever, wherever it's needed. In private, in
public. At home, at the store, at the park, even
at church. At family gatherings, at Little League,
at the swimming pool. Everywhere.
The law is on the
side of nursing mothers. Medical science is on the
side of nursing mothers. Mental health principles
are on the side of nursing mothers. Common sense
is on their side.
The only
influence against nursing mothers is the
irrational, unsupportable attitude that female
breasts are indecent and should never be seen. The
time is long overdue to liberate the female breast
from its prison of intolerance, to normalize it
away from the sexual object it is perceived to be
and back to the instrument of nurturing it has
always been. |